Archives for July 27, 2004

I got back to New York late last night from my family reunion in Smalltown, U.S.A., fell into bed, and arose first thing this morning with what appears to be a summer cold. Great. I’m writing for The Wall Street Journal this morning and the Washington Post tomorrow, after which I head for Massachusetts and Washington, D.C., to see a couple of plays, so a summer cold is just what I need at this juncture, don’t you think?

Anyway, I may post a bit later today or some time tomorrow if my head clears, but don’t be surprised if I opt for elective mutism instead. In any case, I’ll be back for real on Sunday, and you’ll hear from me then, assuming this cold, if it is a cold, doesn’t prove fatal. (Hey, it could happen!)

See you sometime.

UPDATE: The cold’s winning. So far, I’ve written two paragraphs of my Journal piece. All I seem to be able to do is read proofs and blow my nose. Would anyone care to bring me some chicken soup? Or perhaps a nice mug of cyanide?

“The charm of getting home, as I see it, is the charm of getting back to what is inextricably my own–to things familiar and long loved, to things that belong to me alone and none other. I have lived in one house in Baltimore for nearly forty-five years. It has changed in that time, as I have–but somehow it still remains the same. No conceivable decorator’s masterpiece could give me the same ease. It is as much a part of me as my two hands. If I had to leave it I’d be as certainly crippled as if I lost a leg.”

H.L. Mencken, Prejudices: Fifth Series

A reader writes:

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Thanks to you, sir. That was just what a sick blogger needed to find in his e-mailbox on a gray afternoon.

The matched set of Fortune Cookies below, once I had posted them, set me to thinking. I yield to no one in my adoration of M.F.K. Fisher–not even to W. H. Auden, who said of her, “I do not know of anyone in the United States today who writes better prose”–but after I typed in and reread the longer of the two quotations, it struck me as haughty and unpleasant. I worried that it might give readers unfamiliar with her work the wrong impression of Fisher.

What I had in mind in putting together the post, of course, was the striking contrast between Fisher’s description of herself at nineteen in the first quotation, and her self-assessment at thirty in the second. Only after posting did I recognize the second extract as uncharacteristically off-putting. In context, it serves as the set-up and counterpoint to a self-critical remembrance of one of those men Fisher angers with her independence, and it works very differently than it does in isolation.

In another meditation on the subject of eating alone, Fisher is more her usual self. This appears in An Alphabet for Gourmets, where “A is for Dining Alone.”

And the kind people–they are the ones who have made me feel the loneliest. Wherever I have lived, they have indeed been kind–up to a certain point. They have poured cocktails for me, and praised me generously for things I have written to their liking, and showed me their children. And I have seen the discreetly drawn curtains to their family dining rooms, so different from the uncluttered, spinsterish emptiness of my own one room. Behind the far door to the kitchen I have sensed, with the mystic materialism of a hungry woman, the presence of honest-to-God fried chops, peas and carrots, a jello salad, and lemon meringue pie–none of which I like and all of which I admire in theory and would give my eyeteeth to be offered. But the kind people always murmur, “We’d love to have you stay to supper sometime. We wouldn’t dare, of course, the simple way we eat and all.”

As I leave, by myself, two nice plump kind neighbors come in. They say howdo, and then good-by with obvious relief, after a polite, respectful mention of culinary literature as represented, no matter how doubtfully, by me. They sniff the fine creeping straightforward smells in the hall and living room, with silent thanks that they are not condemned to my daily fare of quails financi

“I was horribly self-conscious; I wanted everybody to look at me and think me the most fascinating creature in the world, and yet I died a small hideous death if I saw even one person throw a casual glance at me.”

M.F.K. Fisher, “The Measure of My Powers” (1927)

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“More often than not people who see me on trains and in ships, or in restaurants, feel a kind of resentment of me since I taught myself to enjoy being alone. Women are puzzled, which they hate to be, and jealous of the way I am served, with such agreeable courtesy, and of what I am eating and drinking, which is almost never the sort of thing they order for themselves. And men are puzzled too, in a more personal way. I anger them as males.

“I am sorry. I do not like to do that, or puzzle the women either. But if I must be alone, I refuse to be alone as if it were something weak and distasteful, like convalescence. Men see me eating in public, and I look as if I ‘knew my way around’; and yet I make it plain that I know my way around without them, and that upsets them.

“I know what I want, and I usually get it because I am adaptable to locales. I order meals that are more typically masculine than feminine, if feminine means whipped-cream-and-cherries. I like good wines, or good drinkin’-likka, and beers and ales. I like waiters; I think the woman who said that waiters are much nicer than people was right, and quite often waitresses are too. So they are always nice to me, which is a sure way to annoy other diners whose soup, quite often, they would like to spit in.

“And all these reasons, and probably a thousand others, like the way I wear my hair and what shade my lipstick is, make people look strangely at me, resentfully, with a kind of hurt bafflement, when I dine alone.”

M.F.K. Fisher, “The Lemming to the Sea” (1938)

(Both essays appear in The Gastronomical Me.)

Here’s a more revealing version of yesterday’s story:

Boulevard Diner, ele_en-forty.

I down a hot cup of java.

It’s too quiet.

As a gun barrel whacks my noggin

I realize Dixie set me _p.

And here’s another story belonging to the same rarefied genre:

“Jefe–a burro I view like a pet–

vs. a burrow I dig.

I can tell my ass from a hole in the ground!”

Don Qu_xote eyed Sanc_o Panza: “I get it.”

Ninety-eight letters–the same ninety-eight letters–and two blanks. That’s right, they’re Scrabblegrams: they use all the letters and only the letters in Scrabble to tell a coherent if brief tale. Don Quixote was composed by Eric Chaikin, director of Word Wars, who must have felt smiled upon when it struck him that the names of the novel’s two main characters took care of the Q, the X, and the Z in one fell swoop. Boulevard Diner was written by Eric’s brother Andrew Chaikin, who maintains a website about all his many endeavors here.

Perhaps it’s not quite A Void, but it delights and impresses the hell out of me.